Getting Up Is A Choice

By Zig Ziglar

Virtually all of us have experienced the phenomenon of watching a movie and laughing and, on occasion, even crying.  The tears and laughter were not brought about because somebody put something in the theater seats, but rather by something shown on the screen which entered your mind, affected your emotions and produced the tears or laughter.

The exciting thing is that there is something you can do about your emotions, whether you are “up” or “down,” and the choice is yours.  Most people who are “up” don’t want to do anything to get “down,” but, surprisingly enough, according to a study done at Ohio State University, everyone who is “down,” does not necessarily want to get “up.”  Maybe there is some truth in the old saw that “misery loves company,” or that some people enjoy having “pity parties.”  At least they seem unwilling to take positive actions to cure the “doom and gloom” feeling which they have.

The question is, why would some people elect not to change their gloomy state of mind?  A follow-up study revealed the answer to that question.  It has to do with self-esteem.  Those who felt good about themselves even when they were in a foul mood felt they deserved to feel better and took positive action to accomplish that objective.  Those with poor self-esteem had a tendency to maintain that foul mood by pursuing their negative thinking, which produced the feeling.

One fast cure for overcoming gloomy feelings is offered by the Menninger Clinic in Topeka, Kansas.  Many years ago, Dr. Karl Menninger stated that when we are down, if we will seek out someone else who has a problem and get involved in helping them solve theirs, we quickly forget our own.  So the solution is simple.  When you’re in a blue mood, help someone else solve their problem.  Both of you will feel better, which means I can see both of you AT THE TOP!

The guy who'll decide where you go....

You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. 

You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. 

You're on your own, and you know what you know. 

And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

Dr. Seuss 

7-yr-old perspective of Evils of Alcohol

Dallin on Family Traditions

Jonah and a Whale of a Tale

(true story from this summer)......

Last night, just after we had concluded our typical Monday family get-together, someone was knocking at our door. As my son answered the knock, we observed a young man anxious to visit with the “parents of the house”.

He politely introduced himself as Jonah from Baltimore. He was associated with a youth sales team of “inner city” youth. Jonah had a miracle cleaner to present. My son, Michael had just baked a fresh batch of chocolate chip cookies. So my generous wife offered him a couple of cookies.

As Jonah performed his product demo, we had an interesting discussion regarding overcoming obstacles. He was telling of some of his encounters with customers in his door-to-door sales contacts, the most spectacular being the “gentleman” who answered the door with a double barrel shotgun! The man's wife began asking him product questions with the shotgun pointed to his chest. As Jonah casually answered her questions, he began demonstrating his cleaner by shining the chromed barrels of the shotgun! She bought his product!

Now, whether Jonah was stretching the reality, or not, is of minor significance. I believe the tale has merit. As we work toward our successes in life and business, we will encounter “opportunities” (a positive reference for challenges). Our growth and success is totally dependent upon our response to these opportunities!

IN GOD WE TRUST,....

Following are the words of a young man...17 1/2 year old Michael:

I heard a song on the radio the other day, and it made me start to think. The song was talking about how America seems to have disappeared , and that the people have lost their spirit of patriotism.
Well, I think he was somewhat correct in his song because we (if you look around) don't really take time to think about the freedoms we have, or at least should have. But we have so much to be proud of, and grateful for. Think about it; we choose who runs our country, we choose who represents us in government, AND we all share the equal right to run for these offices ourselves! Besides that, we have the right to keep our own weapons: guns, knives, etc... We have the right to own private property, we can build and operate our own business; and all this was bought with the blood of brave men, who believed in freedom. They gave their lives so that we could have our freedoms, and we have kept those freedoms for over two hundred years now,(a very rare length of time for such a thing) and now, after so long, they are being threatened by ignorance and apathy!
Do you know what our flag represents? It represents freedom from tyranny! Red for the blood shed in defense of liberty; White the purity of the hearts of those who gave their lives for our country, and blue is for the justice, hope, perseverance, and vigilance. The flag represents those who fight for freedom and justice in the wars, in the courtroom, in the schools, or in any other setting, public or private.
I hope we can all have confidence in knowing that the flag represents us.

“In God we trust!” that phrase has, of late, faded in almost every place it has been stamped or engraved. On our coins, where it has been kept more out of tradition then any other reason, it has been moved to the edge, where it is less visible, and where it will be much more likely to fade away. God is the true founder of our nation, and that is why we have been able to overcome impossible odds, not only on the field of battle, but also in the councils of government; the men who formed our government were not people who had been in offices of state, they only studied the writings of those who had. They must have been working under the direction, and inspiration of God. God knows everything, and He is able to give us guidance, and council.

IN GOD WE TRUST,....
And in us God places His trust!!
Michael
2011

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